"TORPE"

“Torpe!”

“Secretly in love pero hindi naman masabi. Gusto makasama pero hindi kayang lapitan. Gusto makausap pero natatakot simulan. Worst, gustong pansinin pero pag anjan na, tumatakbo naman papalayo.”

These are some cute attitude of a person who happens to love someone she thought not her level. May ganun buh sa love? Or should i say, these are the characteristic of a person who happens to be in love yet have no courage to tell and confess her feelings. “Torpe” in short!

Sige, let’s say it’s hard nga naman talaga admitting you liked that person especially when he doesn’t even know you exist only when the time he walk on that corridor and you were standing there. Question is, does he know what’s your name is the moment she saw you nah? Well, maybe yes if, you were wearing a name tag =’p

Reality, nowadays it is not important whether you’re a girl or a boy. If you like him, then go and make some move. Flirting as others may call it, then so? Are you familiar with the movie “Crazy Little Thing Called Love?” a very cute thai love story movie, where a girl fell in love with their campus heartthrob. She was unknown. A no one. Students even call her bug face and dark skin. And the boy was famous, handsome and a varsity. Almost a counterfeit of what she was on school. So she failed to confess her feelings, her love. Last part, the boy feels the same pala. How she, herself, and other students make her feel how ugly she was, was opposite to the opinion of the boy. For the boy, she was the prettiest girl. The boy loves her eventually. Time past and was wasted. Actually it was a happy ending because the girls confess. Problems and misunderstanding were there.

The point here is, if none of you will do the first step and take the risk of consequence, both of you will end up waiting for the right time the rest of your lives. And talking about you, when do you think is the right time? Next month? Year? Come on! What if you let time past, then he got to know someone caring and loving. What will happen to you? Regret the rest of your life? Move! You know you could do better than anyone else. You know you could be more caring and loving than any other girls.

Think! Better to tell now or it’s too late. Do not let your fear from rejection conquer you. Whether he rejects you or not, at least you’ve tried. And trying without thinking the risk is a brave decision than keeping your feelings. Hanggang kilig kilig ka na lang while nakikita mo siya were in fact you can be with him. That you can be together and enjoying love and companion. But then you choose to be silent. Duwag and “torpe”.

Okay, umaasa at nangangarap or whatever other call this one. What if he feels the same? And of course you’ll never know because you never tried to know. What if he was also afraid you reject his feelings? That’s why he never spoke to you. Look, girls have the strongest feeling. Tayo ang mas mabilis makaramdam and all we feel are actually right. It may not be all but most. We see base on action and we judge base on what we see. With it, we can know if someone likes us or not, kung mahal tayo o hindi. Kaya if you feel like you have the chance, lunukin mo pride mo and do it slowly or be straight forward and tell him at once, your choice.

Let’s look on the positive thought naman now. What if you took the first step? And then he accepted. He may not give you your love in return right away, but what if he likes it? That he appreciates someone actually recognize him? Care and loved him? Will you not be happy? You’re a fool if you’ll say yes! Do not ever waste time girl.

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