“How to Manage a Break-Up”

“How to Manage a Break-Up”

Tips:

ü Kapag nagkita “ignore”.

-You might feel pain ignoring him/her but it really helps not letting your feelings shown. Let her do the first step. Keep your pride. Kung hindi ka papansinin, ‘wag mo habulin. He will only feel you can’t forget him no matter how bastard he was to you.

ü Dapat laging masaya. “naka smile” kapag nagkita accidently.

-Let him see your happy having your freedom. Let him see that you can smile even after break up. Have the spirit and do not let yourself look sad all the time, instead be more beautiful and happy always anytime and anywhere.

ü Never let him see you’re affected.

-Always think positive. Be strong. Let him see you can manage to continue doing your everyday activity and that world doesn’t stop if he’s gone. And hindi lang sa kanya tumatakbo o umiikot mundo at buhay mo.

ü Always be with someone. Don’t be a loner.

-Spending time with friends is worth it than being on your bed whole day and crying out like it’s the end. Once is enough. Okay! Burst out at once. Then DONE! See the other side of yourself, your world and surroundings. There are actually people out there waiting and willing to comfort you that you only miss because you choose to have even the worst day being with the person who hurt you now.

ü Don’t let him feel you’re a looser.

-Be confident. Be naturally you. Join activities. Be active. Participate in your school. Be famous. There are things that could help you forget. And these are the things you don’t give attention when you were so blind being with him. Never do the first step when you knew it wasn’t your fault. Having your pride is not bad when you knew there’s no worth fighting your relationship. Time will only be wasted if you both continue. And things will happen just the same, again and again.

ü Ilipat ang attention sa ibang bagay na ika-kasaya.

-This is it. Once you can make it, you’ll see how beautiful world is. A lot of things you missed. Now keep an eye on it. Give yourself a plaque of appreciation. Look on the beautiful side and not the dark side of life.

ü Do something on your physical appearance.

-Yes! And a big help. Go to salon, pamper and relax yourself. A haircut will do. Like what everyone wants once they get in the situation. And it’s proven that it really gives “gaan” feeling. Do not let him see you looking haggard. It will only give him points that he took a lot on you. Come on! Plus, you should not let him feel that you cannot move on with him. Reborn! This will give you confidence to face every tomorrows.

ü Itapon and mga bagay that remind you of him/her.

-This is hard. It’s really hard that you need to think hundred times before you can decide. But once you did, it’s the best way to forget past. The more you see these things, the more you get exhausted. The more it’s hard for you to move on. Because all you can think is “sayang”, keso saying ang pinagsamahan, ang years, memories and happiness you both did and had. But think reverse, on the contradict, what was more wasted are those time that you should have earn to yourself. Move on, be empty and start all over. There is what we call LIFE!

ü Accept! Adopt! Apply! ................MOVE ON!

No one knew what you should do except yourself. You’ll say your problem with a friend and she will throw advices and concern but on the end it’s up to you. Whether you take it or not, it’s up to you. You, yourself is the only person who knew when to end what is to be end. If you think it’s already wrong continuing, then go, decide! Advices are meant to be said by a friend to help you comfort and be happy. But that goes for an hour or a day. When you go back home, lay down on your bed, feelings go back! Then you’ll cry. Again tomorrow, friends will comfort you...so on and so forth! Listen, it is always better to decide earlier than let another time be wasted with wrong relationship. Open a chance for other things. Life is too short to be “martyr” with someone who is actually not meant for you. And worst it, you knew but you let it happen and keep on happening.

If not now then when should you decide? Maawa ka sa sarili mo, don’t let your relationship patakbohin lang ng isa sa inyo. Both of you should love and treasure what you’ve started till the end of every months and even years. Both of you should be treated and feel special as how you started. And not because you were already at ease and had been together for many years now, you change. Love, care, respect and honesty should always be maintained. If you seems not to feel it anymore, and there’s no reason to continue.

......to be continue!